Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition Summary and Reviews

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition
by Harville Hendrix Ph.D.

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition
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Author: Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
Afterword: Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
Edition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2007-12-26
ISBN: 0805087001
Number of pages: 384
Publisher: Henry Holt & Co
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  • ISBN13: 9780805087000
  • Condition: New
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Book Review: 20 Years Later
Summary: 5 Stars

Two decades ago, while I was enduring the aftermath of a divorce, an acquaintance "tricked" me into reading this book. (That's an interesting story, but for another time.)

I had heard it said that unless we understand why we married our first spouse, we were almost certainly doomed to remarry the "same person". That I did NOT want to do. So, in order to avoid that dreadful prospect, I began reading this book.

At first I was appalled at Hendrix's explanation of why I had chosen my first wife. In fact, I was so offended (and frightened) by what he said, that I almost threw away the book. However, I was just desperate enough to keep reading. And, I am certainly thankful I did. By the end of the book, I was convinced Hendrix was absolutely right in his explanation of love (as a mental process) and why we choose whom we choose.

Twenty years later, I can testify that I am still indebted to this book. It has helped me avoid a number of HORRIBLE mistakes that I was initially inclined to make.

I would also advise anyone who will listen to read this book. Read it as if you're a single person, even if you're married. Read it if you want to understand why you make the decisions you make. Read it if you want to avoid multiple failures in relationships and all sorts of life-changing decisions.

As Solomon wrote: "The mind of the wise seeks knowledge. But the mouth of the fool feeds on folly." (Proverbs 15.14) This book might just be the first meal of wisdom you need.

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