The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker Summary and Reviews
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Book Reviews of The Gift of Fear
Book Review: A MUST READ BOOK FOR WOMEN!
Summary: 5 Stars
As a professional counsellor for thirty years, many of my clients have been victims of domestic violence. This will be one book that I will be highly recommending to those in need. The aftermath of a domestic violence scene is a clear, horrific and unforgettable reminder of the physical and emotional damage violence can leave in its wake. The author has given us the reality of violence and outlines ways in which we can best protect ourselves or, in some cases, prevent it. As De Becker reveals there are a variety of signals which the trained eye can identify that indicate there is a potential threat. The downside is "love is blind" and in many relationships, these early signals go ignored until it is too late. Violence is not only a crime, it is a need to control and often a result of emotional problems traced back to early childhood. Some of most notorious violent offenders have presented the outward appearance of being the typical "nice guy next door."
The author takes a no-nonsense approach to handing potentially threatening situations. Many women have, as children, been raised to be well-mannered, polite, and courteous. As De Becker tells us, these fine qualities do not work when fending off an attacker. The statistics are: 75 woman are raped every hour and one is beaten every few seconds. In today's society, a woman needs to have the ability to protect herself as best she can. As the author reveals, doing what one can to eliminate the potential risk in the first place is an excellent place to start. I, personally, have training in martial arts and feel any woman would benefit from some form of protection even if it is a short, basic course in self defense. Having the skills and smarts to best defend yourself may be your one chance for survival if you are ever attacked.
The case studies given in this book will likely have a profound impact on the reader. They are true, documented cases that vividly portray what can and does happen in both your country and mine 365 days of the week, each and every year. Hopefully, readers will become better prepared to prevent an attack or defend themselves against one. While the book may place emphasis on women as victims, it should be pointed out that men are also targets of violence and the book could will benefit both genders. "The Gift of Fear" is highly recommended and deserving of far more than five stars in the rating.
Book Review: A MUST READ FOR ALL WOMEN
Summary: 5 Stars
This book should be required reading for all women. Men should read this book to better understand the constant awarness women must exercise. This book clearly explains how we are all potential targets but sometimes we can keep from being a victim.Book Review: A MUST READ FOR WOMEN!!
Summary: 5 Stars
All women, and especially those that live in urban areas shouldread this book. Trust your common sense and intuition.Book Review: A Must Read !
Summary: 5 Stars
This book is incredible and very worth reading over and over. Fast, easy to read and practical information from an expert. This author keeps people safe for a living and is a very engaging story teller. I could not put the book down! The reality of what works and what does not work to keep you and/or your loved safe is very different than what you'd think of on your own. Every home with children should have this book.
A true must read!!
Book Review: A Must Read for those who want to be more Safety Savvy
Summary: 4 Stars
Gavin de Becker empowers readers with his extensive knowledge and research on violent behavior like no one else. His detailed work can teach anyone that violence does not just happen randomly. But how there are clues in every unsafe situation with strangers, stalkers, or threatening people we can pick up on.
This is a must read for anyone who is frustrated on what to do about violence and wants to 'stack the deck' in their favor when it comes to the ultimate protection of themselves and their loved-ones in today's society.