The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho by Brett Tate Summary and Reviews
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Book Reviews of The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho
Book Review: Interesting Guidebook to Bachelorhood Mastery
Summary: 4 Stars
I wouldn't include this in the group of PUA how-to guides like Mystery Method or Layguide because it cover a lot more ground than those two books. The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide's scope covers far more than just how to meet women. In the author's view, that's the somewhat easy part. It's the how to deal with women after you've bedded them that makes this book so much different than the rest.
So what else does it cover? How to protect you assets, how to deal with crazy women, where to go on vacation to meet and bang women. I can totally see some people not liking the way the writer views women and even I winced a few times, but I got over it. There are some real nuggets of wisdom that may not make an immediate impact to your life as a Player, but will help you overall keep your life from spinning out of control because of women.
It could be better written and maybe there will be a second edition some day that cleans things up, but it's truly a unique book with a different perspective that's love it or hate it. I bought one of the author's other books called The Hedonist which is much more focused on the subject of bedding women around the world. I recommend that book as well if you plan on doing any international travel.
Overall, I recommend this book to any single guy or divorced guy who wants to better understand female psychology and how you can work it to your advantage.
Book Review: Brilliant Title, great advice
Summary: 5 Stars
Great advice. Anyone who's studied psychology or marketing will recognize the content and like how he's tailored it towards dating. Underneath all the witty shock value, you learn how to make yourself more physically and intellectually attractive and create a subconscious emotional connection. It improves your influence and persuasion skills with women and its application would be as useful in business.
Other themes; speed seduction via psychology (showing social status and willingness to walk), how to protect yourself emotionally and financially from ever being manipulated again. There's a very detailed psychological profiling of the female mind. It shows how to read women and better understand what makes each of a dozen different personalities tick. Determine her personality type and then tailor your approach to create sexual chemistry and steer her emotions in the encounter. You'll recognize ex-girlfriends personalities described to the T and immediately see where you went right or wrong.
Women all size up men. They have years of practice at it between chick lit, The View, Oprah, and their 10,000 hours of yapping away with each other dissecting men they date. This book levels the playing field for men.
If you're in your early 20's, a lot of this will seem rough around the edges and may not yet apply in your life (unless you're hunting cougars). It's never too early to learn. If you're 30+, you've been around long enough to recognize exactly what he is writing about. We all know guys stuck in a life sucking relationship, had a friend get rolled in a divorce when it was her fault and he still pays out the nose. This book advises how to steer clear of the dark side of women and their entitlement mentality that has become so common, particularly among the early 30's and/or divorced women. Most importantly, it shows you how to legally seal away your assets and not get destroyed in a divorce.
The writing is funny and crude but a brutally honest perspective. I found myself constantly laughing and agreeing with what he says with great observation humor. A highly entertaining and interesting read. For lighter reading, pick up his other book that just came out. For photo-journalism it's the funniest, wildest, raunchiest memoir I've ever read.
High Heels and Dirty Deals - Globetrotting Tales of Debauchery from a Binge-drinking Nymphomaniac
Book Review: Get this one Guys
Summary: 4 Stars
This book has made the rounds at the office, with a lot of guys going around quoting some of the funniest lines from the book. Tate is a great cynical writer. The guy really holds nothing back and tells it like it is today for Alpha males in a PC metrosexual world full of divorce happy women. Great persuasion and influence advice on dating girls on your terms. The section I thought the best is the financial shelter tips. He advises every guy to set up asset protection before you're even engaged, and to let the girl know in advance. Brilliant advice really. The gold diggers will walk saving you a lifetime of aggravation. Either way you're protected in case things go wrong.
I know at least half dozen guys who've been ridden hard and dry in a divorce who could have benefited immensely from this advice. The book is a great primer for studying up on the numerous options for self-employed business men to the wealthy. Explicit details for setting up shelters in layman terms...the how and where, what to do, what to avoid, etc. A quick study that will save you a lot of billable hours by being prepared in advance.
Book Review: Too misogynistic for me
Summary: 1 Stars
I was disappointed by this book. The overall feeling is of deep misogyny. The author comes at dating and women with a huge chip on his shoulder. Many times you find a section of the book where it seems that there is about to be some good, useful information that you could implement to improve your dating game, and the author falls back on hyperbole and humor without following through with his point. I want my money back.Book Review: Playing the Game
Summary: 4 Stars
For guys who already have game, this is a thinking man's lifestyle guide to analyzing and pursuing women without ever getting played or manipulated again. Advice for the step beyond one-night stands. Overall it's a nice treatise and refresher course for self-improvement, attitude, and achieving relationship goals. Judging from the writing it's obvious the author has played women of all stripes innumerable times, from the sweethearts to the catastrophes. Utilizing psychoanalysis, he explains the angles for reading, creating an emotional connection, and seducing each personality of women. Focus is on dating the right personality type, and making sure she displays the healthy characteristics and not the self-destructive/me-first traits. His financial protection advice comes into play here as well, taking your self-protection to the ultimate level, in case she becomes a complete disaster. Better safe than sorry.
I had a serious d?j? vu moment reading this. Tate reminds me of this crazy psychologist club dude I knew years ago; he was just as cynical, witty and smart as the author. His career gave him such a mental edge working women. He'd go out Friday night to an upscale 5 star hotel lobby bar in a suit picking up high class 9's, and the next night hit grunge metal bars in fatigues, shades and spiked hair picking up sorority babes. Clubbing for him was like Halloween every night, between the role-playing, look and approaches. There are tons of insights in this book that sound like exact quotes from my buddy. It's all one big mind game to these guys. They knowing how the end game will play out before it begins; knowing when to bail....and they always win.
Just like this author, he could point out any girl in a club and tell you her life story, all her preferences in life, the perfect approach, and why dating her would or wouldn't work out. I'd approach and test his theories and he just nailed it every time. If you want to learn that kind of stuff, to have laser vision for the easy girls and how to spot, pursue or avoid the high maintenance babes to the crazies, this psychology manual is a must for the arsenal.