Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by Sherry Argov Summary and Reviews
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Book Reviews of Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Book Review: Fantastic Realistic Advice!
Summary: 5 Stars
I bought this book after a recommendation on a discussion forum. Even though I am in a long term relationship I found this book gave some excellent & most importantly realistically practical advice! It's not about the tradional treat em mean keep em keep bitch but more about how you should maintain your independance in a relationhsip & not give up too much of your previous life to be with your new man. It starts off with advice on new relationships and finishing off with advice on the more serious ones. What behaviour you should expect from a decent guy & how you should act to keep them keep rather than think you are a push over. This book is a must read for anyone in or out of a relationship.Book Review: BUY IT!
Summary: 5 Stars
as i entered the book shop at top speed, this book stopped me in my tracks. the title grabbed my attention as i have always wanted to know why the bitches get the nice guys.well, this book tells you exactly how they do it. and it doesnt mean you have to be a mean spirited stuck up cow either!
it tells you that you need to be independent, dont change your life for him, dont always be available, have your own money, in essence, depend on yourself, not your man and he will do all he can to stick by your side. men dont want a doormat, they want a girl who is hard to get and not one who plays hard to get.
i have bought this book for all of my girlfriends and firmly believe that every woman in the world should read it
Book Review: Play it cool ladies
Summary: 5 Stars
Why is it that you go into a relationship & do all the RIGHT things & try to be sincere & then YOU get dumped? You turn up on time for dates, when he wants to see you, you agree. You cook him his favourite meals. STOP!!!!!!! Seems we have got it all wrong. Now, I know that there are some men out there who will think you are an absolute diamond if you do all of those things for him & he will remian interested - but sadly those men are far & few between.I did all of the above for my last ex boyfriend & after two months he dumped me - even though we got on really well & there were no major problems. I was just being too NICE. Or a doormat as this book describes.
Men say they dont want to play games etc - dont be fooled girls, because if you dont play games you will lose him. this book is totally right.
I bought it just after i had split with my ex & i really regret not buying it before the split. Maybe then i could of got things under control. Truth is, as long as you are just out of reach - he will do all he can to stop you from slipping away. Once you are in his 'clutches' you might as well end the relationship yourself.
A couple of months after splitting with my ex i rang him up to ask if we could be friends. By the end of the call he was hinting about getting back together again. This was on a Monday and we agreed to meet one week later on the following Monday. Now as a rule i would of sent him a text message (or a few) in between, but i thought NO, try out one of the tactics in the book. MEN RESPOND TO NO CONTACT. I decided to have no communication with him at all before the meeting we had arranged. Sure enough, on the Friday night I received a message from him saying 'dont forget to meet me on Monday'. this was totally out of character for him. I knew there and then that the tactic had worked for me. Sadly on the Saturday I got a little drunk & rang him for a chat & he didnt like that i had done that and he cancelled the meeting BUT i KNOW that if i hadnt rang him on the Saturday and had persisted with the tactic, i could have had him eating out of the palm of my hand.
It is a shame that we have to resort to these measures ladies but it is the only way. So remember - dont push it. Keep cool. Keep your hobbies and social life and your routines going and make a little room for him - but not too much. If you are successful and something great and really serious comes of the relationship THEN you can pamper him a bit more without fear of being a doormat. Good luck!!!!!
Book Review: Honest and valuable!
Summary: 4 Stars
This excellent book is NOT about playing games. Both strong and self-confident men and women do NOT play games. They know their own value. They have their own life and want a partner, NOT an attachment! For example, I had 8 relationships before I found my husband. Once I decided that my education and goal- a PH.D. in Sexuality are as important as the guys around me I started seeing greater interest towards me.The author presented this very strong, important and paradigm shifting message in an understandable book which I am sure most people will enjoy. I am also sure that men will always be more interested in confident and innerly strong women than in "nice girls", which are just like an email attachment. You cannot get rid of it and its 24/7/365 there desperate for you. It is not that men are "bored" by "nice girls" but they are just like a stone hanging on your neck and soon or late they will abandon you.
Sherry did a great job in showing you all those small details and actions that separate a confident and strong woman from a man's attachment. That's why this is a valuable book. Additional book, which will help you to have a fantastic relationship is "Scientifically guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex" by Alan Ritz.
Marilyn R. Barry Ph. D. in Sexuality
Book Review: The most helpful
Summary: 5 Stars
I was searching for books on relationships and was put off by the title when i saw this one, but after reading the reviews decided to buy it. it was a life-saver and the best among the several i bought. yes i was the doormat who cooked the elaborate meal and all the rest of it trying to squeeze some affection out of someone who didn't appreciate anything i did. because my first BF was super-loving and a feminist to boot i did not find being loving and giving a problem, but i never knew not all men are like that. i spent a long time wondering what was wrong. Thanks to Sherry Argov now i know. If you feel drained and unhappy in your relationship and want a better one, buy this book, the answers are all there.